I invited him to my birthday party that i may or may not have and he said yes. I'm beginning to think that he's torn between liking me and me being black, he's acting the way that Andre did at the beginning of our relationship. That's no fun let me tell ya. It's like, i like you in private but in public we're just friends and it's 100 percent innocent type deal. i think it also may have something to do with him being taken seriously as a preacher. i just wish that he would have thought about this before he approached me after leaving our job if this is the case. People are going to talk about interracial couples because even though people do it all the time, it's still weird. But i don't care, i just wish that the people i become involved with wouldn't either. Do they ever think about how they may be making me feel? I don't ask them out they ask me, ugh!!!!!!